Music_czar
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 27, 2018
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Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?I Would you like me to post something on mental illness to get your mojo going ?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?I Would you like me to post something on mental illness to get your mojo going ?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Is this the "win" u r looking for ?Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?
If you're in high school or college (I am), know that most women your age will be mentally unstable/petty, and sadly will be so well into their 20s...I’m coming to the conclusion that most women are mentally unstable. Most of my LTR’s are with women who have high interest right from the start but they turn out to be clingy, have low self esteem but worship me. All the other women are AW’s, bpd’s, or looking for the next branch to swing to. The only advice I can give you is to keep banging bishes, enjoy the company with the ones that worship you and always have a backup.
This!!!I’ve also noticed young women are getting much better at compartmentalizing and turning their feeling off for a guy very suddenly, much worse than it ever was before. Scary stuff. I don’t know what average or fat chicks are like, but the hot ones in their 20’s are crazier than ever I dont think it can get any worse.
Judging off this statement, things have seemingly have gotten worse the more the years pastIf you're in high school or college (I am), know that most women your age will be mentally unstable/petty, and sadly will be so well into their 20s...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
A few of good women around though, key is recognising them.Just getting tired of dealing of women.
I'm 40, never married and no kids. Attractive, good career, own a house and car, no drug or health issues, but all I do is cycle through short term fling to short term fling when it comes to women. I have tight game, very sociable, and very good at seduction. I can usually sleep with a new prospect within the first or second date. Things usually escalate where we date for a month or two and then abruptly end.
I suppose part of the problem is, I'm running into head case after head case. Very attractive, but they're all messed up in one way or another. I wonder if i've passed the point where I can meet and settle down with a normal woman without baggage. Am I just being cynical? Most of the women I meet, everything goes great and they end up sabotaging things in the end in one way or another.
What should I do at this point? Take a break from dating or drop the idea of settling down which is ultimately what I want? I have a very high sex drive, so the idea of not dating doesn't sit well. I'm just tired of wasting my time and energy on doomed prospects.