Music_czar
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 27, 2018
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Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?I Would you like me to post something on mental illness to get your mojo going ?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?I Would you like me to post something on mental illness to get your mojo going ?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this the "win" u r looking for ?Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?
If you're in high school or college (I am), know that most women your age will be mentally unstable/petty, and sadly will be so well into their 20s...I’m coming to the conclusion that most women are mentally unstable. Most of my LTR’s are with women who have high interest right from the start but they turn out to be clingy, have low self esteem but worship me. All the other women are AW’s, bpd’s, or looking for the next branch to swing to. The only advice I can give you is to keep banging bishes, enjoy the company with the ones that worship you and always have a backup.
This!!!I’ve also noticed young women are getting much better at compartmentalizing and turning their feeling off for a guy very suddenly, much worse than it ever was before. Scary stuff. I don’t know what average or fat chicks are like, but the hot ones in their 20’s are crazier than ever I dont think it can get any worse.
Judging off this statement, things have seemingly have gotten worse the more the years pastIf you're in high school or college (I am), know that most women your age will be mentally unstable/petty, and sadly will be so well into their 20s...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A few of good women around though, key is recognising them.Just getting tired of dealing of women.
I'm 40, never married and no kids. Attractive, good career, own a house and car, no drug or health issues, but all I do is cycle through short term fling to short term fling when it comes to women. I have tight game, very sociable, and very good at seduction. I can usually sleep with a new prospect within the first or second date. Things usually escalate where we date for a month or two and then abruptly end.
I suppose part of the problem is, I'm running into head case after head case. Very attractive, but they're all messed up in one way or another. I wonder if i've passed the point where I can meet and settle down with a normal woman without baggage. Am I just being cynical? Most of the women I meet, everything goes great and they end up sabotaging things in the end in one way or another.
What should I do at this point? Take a break from dating or drop the idea of settling down which is ultimately what I want? I have a very high sex drive, so the idea of not dating doesn't sit well. I'm just tired of wasting my time and energy on doomed prospects.