"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting the 'Ummm'..when you ask for a number

mackdaddy27

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hey guys,
i open a set and i talk to them about where there from, what they do etc..and we shoot the shyt for a few minutes and when they usually have to go or something , I ask for the number,Sometimes, I get a response from them like 'umm'.. or have this unsure look to them. When I ask for the number, she usually go 'um....' or 'geez....' and go silent.. as theywant me to give them a reason, but I usually dont say anything. or say something indirect like 'want to ask you a question'. I usually dont end up getting the number when they say like this....why do girls sometimes give you that uncertain response
when you ask for the number and how to prevent it ?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Instead of asking for the number try handing her your cell phone and say "I'd like to continue this conversation you should program your number". Don't give them an opportunity to say no or come up with excuses. At the same time if she is not feeling you then there's not much you can do about it.
 

sherineo

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Okey let me enlighten you...

getting her number doesn't mean you have fvcked her...or you have created a lead...

I dont understand the obsession with the digits on this forum...

a phone number is as good as approching a chic in a bar and straight away ask to have sex...
 

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"Oh you dont have a phone? Sheesh too bad for you. I just assumed you would have what with it being the 21st centry and all (laugh + playful prod). Well dont worry we can improvise. Just give me your address and Ill drop you postcard sometimes"
 

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Attraction ain't there, or she wants to reject you and she's got no clue of how to do it. She probably ain't worth your time or will flake on you in the future.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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