Ok theres this pretty girl in my class, probably a 7-7.5 which I wouldn't mind getting a fvck out of. The problem is, I don't really know how to ask for number or where i should take her/whether I should pay yadda yadda yada
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Getting the Number
- Thread starter LilKid
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I'm still somewhat a noobie myself.Originally posted by dbot
ask her for her number, take her wherever you want, only pay if you want to, and if she has a problem then it's too bad for her.
But what I fvcking hate is new people who come to this site and read about "Think of yourself as the catch, act like you don't give-a-sh!t..." and they take it to the extremes!
If you asked her out and it's your first date, why the fvck shouldn't you pay jackass? You gonna ask a girl to join you for something and act like an a$$hole by not paying?
After the first date then money can be paid by either of you, but if it was your idea to go out you should freaking pay cheapass.
SuSHI.
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I never said to take her out and refuse to pay. I said pay if you want to. And that really depends on the situation. If I meet a girl and ask her if she wants to grab a bite with me at Subway, then she can pay for her own sandwitch. The same goes for coffee or any other cheap, casual dining. However, if I take her out to dinner then of course I will pay, but its also on my terms and if she's not down with it then its too bad for her.
I never said to take her out and refuse to pay. I said pay if you want to. And that really depends on the situation. If I meet a girl and ask her if she wants to grab a bite with me at Subway, then she can pay for her own sandwitch. The same goes for coffee or any other cheap, casual dining. However, if I take her out to dinner then of course I will pay, but its also on my terms and if she's not down with it then its too bad for her.