Ok theres this pretty girl in my class, probably a 7-7.5 which I wouldn't mind getting a fvck out of. The problem is, I don't really know how to ask for number or where i should take her/whether I should pay yadda yadda yada
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Getting the Number
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I'm still somewhat a noobie myself.Originally posted by dbot
ask her for her number, take her wherever you want, only pay if you want to, and if she has a problem then it's too bad for her.
But what I fvcking hate is new people who come to this site and read about "Think of yourself as the catch, act like you don't give-a-sh!t..." and they take it to the extremes!
If you asked her out and it's your first date, why the fvck shouldn't you pay jackass? You gonna ask a girl to join you for something and act like an a$$hole by not paying?
After the first date then money can be paid by either of you, but if it was your idea to go out you should freaking pay cheapass.
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I never said to take her out and refuse to pay. I said pay if you want to. And that really depends on the situation. If I meet a girl and ask her if she wants to grab a bite with me at Subway, then she can pay for her own sandwitch. The same goes for coffee or any other cheap, casual dining. However, if I take her out to dinner then of course I will pay, but its also on my terms and if she's not down with it then its too bad for her.
I never said to take her out and refuse to pay. I said pay if you want to. And that really depends on the situation. If I meet a girl and ask her if she wants to grab a bite with me at Subway, then she can pay for her own sandwitch. The same goes for coffee or any other cheap, casual dining. However, if I take her out to dinner then of course I will pay, but its also on my terms and if she's not down with it then its too bad for her.