Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Asian PUA nice!!InnerHappiness said:This will help some of us out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBJMKjYp-8Y&feature=youtu.be
*Inspired by Pook, DesdiNova, Naughty Ninja, nismo, and many more throughout the years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Take it as a satirical escapade of a typical nice guy :kick:perseverance said:What a load of Tony Baloney.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
InnerHappiness said:This will help some of us out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBJMKjYp-8Y&feature=youtu.be
*Inspired by Pook, DesdiNova, Naughty Ninja, nismo, and many more throughout the years.
Yeah I was hoping he would say he was joking but i was disappointed. He is so sure of his game (Beta game in Rollo's words).jhl said:I thought that this had to be a joke but the body language and voice tone spoke otherwise......
DAMN salesman curse!!! IDK who I am ANYMORE!Love's Orphan said:Yeah I was hoping he would say he was joking but i was disappointed. He is so sure of his game (Beta game in Rollo's words).