I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Asian PUA nice!!InnerHappiness said:This will help some of us out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBJMKjYp-8Y&feature=youtu.be
*Inspired by Pook, DesdiNova, Naughty Ninja, nismo, and many more throughout the years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Take it as a satirical escapade of a typical nice guy :kick:perseverance said:What a load of Tony Baloney.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
InnerHappiness said:This will help some of us out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBJMKjYp-8Y&feature=youtu.be
*Inspired by Pook, DesdiNova, Naughty Ninja, nismo, and many more throughout the years.
Yeah I was hoping he would say he was joking but i was disappointed. He is so sure of his game (Beta game in Rollo's words).jhl said:I thought that this had to be a joke but the body language and voice tone spoke otherwise......
DAMN salesman curse!!! IDK who I am ANYMORE!Love's Orphan said:Yeah I was hoping he would say he was joking but i was disappointed. He is so sure of his game (Beta game in Rollo's words).