You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Asian PUA nice!!InnerHappiness said:This will help some of us out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBJMKjYp-8Y&feature=youtu.be
*Inspired by Pook, DesdiNova, Naughty Ninja, nismo, and many more throughout the years.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Take it as a satirical escapade of a typical nice guy :kick:perseverance said:What a load of Tony Baloney.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
InnerHappiness said:This will help some of us out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBJMKjYp-8Y&feature=youtu.be
*Inspired by Pook, DesdiNova, Naughty Ninja, nismo, and many more throughout the years.
Yeah I was hoping he would say he was joking but i was disappointed. He is so sure of his game (Beta game in Rollo's words).jhl said:I thought that this had to be a joke but the body language and voice tone spoke otherwise......
DAMN salesman curse!!! IDK who I am ANYMORE!Love's Orphan said:Yeah I was hoping he would say he was joking but i was disappointed. He is so sure of his game (Beta game in Rollo's words).