"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thatguynj said:
probably because I really never cared until now
"I wasn't trying" is practically the motto of the guy who can't get girls and gave up.


Thatguynj said:
I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc.
it would be easier to meet new girls than un-friendzone yourself with the old girls, it'd have a higher success rate too, keep that in mind.

Thatguynj said:
I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.
oh dear god man, pick youself up some liquid courage(alcohol), but if you think you've still got a chance then there's no permanent damage.

Thatguynj said:
I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.
think about what you say in advance, and always have something you can say for when you run out of things to say.

Thatguynj said:
I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.
don't kiss the kind of girl who would complain.
 

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Thatguynj said:
Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
The SS Articles provide great information:

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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