"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting the First Kiss tips

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Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thatguynj said:
probably because I really never cared until now
"I wasn't trying" is practically the motto of the guy who can't get girls and gave up.


Thatguynj said:
I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc.
it would be easier to meet new girls than un-friendzone yourself with the old girls, it'd have a higher success rate too, keep that in mind.

Thatguynj said:
I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.
oh dear god man, pick youself up some liquid courage(alcohol), but if you think you've still got a chance then there's no permanent damage.

Thatguynj said:
I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.
think about what you say in advance, and always have something you can say for when you run out of things to say.

Thatguynj said:
I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.
don't kiss the kind of girl who would complain.
 

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Thatguynj said:
Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
The SS Articles provide great information:

:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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