Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting the First Kiss tips

Thatguynj

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Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thatguynj said:
probably because I really never cared until now
"I wasn't trying" is practically the motto of the guy who can't get girls and gave up.


Thatguynj said:
I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc.
it would be easier to meet new girls than un-friendzone yourself with the old girls, it'd have a higher success rate too, keep that in mind.

Thatguynj said:
I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.
oh dear god man, pick youself up some liquid courage(alcohol), but if you think you've still got a chance then there's no permanent damage.

Thatguynj said:
I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.
think about what you say in advance, and always have something you can say for when you run out of things to say.

Thatguynj said:
I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.
don't kiss the kind of girl who would complain.
 

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Thatguynj said:
Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
The SS Articles provide great information:

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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