"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting the First Kiss tips

Thatguynj

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Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thatguynj said:
probably because I really never cared until now
"I wasn't trying" is practically the motto of the guy who can't get girls and gave up.


Thatguynj said:
I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc.
it would be easier to meet new girls than un-friendzone yourself with the old girls, it'd have a higher success rate too, keep that in mind.

Thatguynj said:
I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.
oh dear god man, pick youself up some liquid courage(alcohol), but if you think you've still got a chance then there's no permanent damage.

Thatguynj said:
I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.
think about what you say in advance, and always have something you can say for when you run out of things to say.

Thatguynj said:
I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.
don't kiss the kind of girl who would complain.
 

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Thatguynj said:
Hey everyone. As the title says it, I need help on getting my first kiss. I'm almost 18 and still haven't kissed a girl, probably because I really never cared until now. My main question is how should I do it?

I go to an all guy's high school but I know a few girls (most of them I'm friend zoned with because im afc. I know a few girls though that I might be able to kiss but I just don't know how to do it and such. I can say I've pussied out of kissing a couple times even with the golden opportunities.

I can generally talk fine with anyone, but sometimes I do choke up or ramble on when talking to girls (depends really on my mojo). Just need some advice on what to do, how to do it, and stuff. I have a lot of friends who know game well but they really give me like general stuff.

I think one of the reasons I ***** out is because I dont know how to kiss and im afraid I won't be a good kisser.


Thanks for all the help.
The SS Articles provide great information:

:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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