"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting the date set

Konada

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Occasionally I encounter the flaky bs and wonder how I can play this out, these girls are from tinder

<After exchanging 2 messages>
Me: I'm not much into the back and forth texting or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you. =)

HB: HAHAHA that sounds lovely! :)
Me: Perfect, what nights are you free this week?
HB: Sorry I fell asleep! I'm not sure my schedule is in a mess right now :/ (It was pretty late at night)

Pretty sure walking away won't help when her investment is so low and its tinder where the bigger better deal is just a next swipe away.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Occasionally I encounter the flaky bs and wonder how I can play this out, these girls are from tinder

<After exchanging 2 messages>
Me: I'm not much into the back and forth texting or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you. =)

HB: HAHAHA that sounds lovely! :)
Me: Perfect, what nights are you free this week?
HB: Sorry I fell asleep! I'm not sure my schedule is in a mess right now :/ (It was pretty late at night)

Pretty sure walking away won't help when her investment is so low and its tinder where the bigger better deal is just a next swipe away.
Chasing won't help either.

Tell her to let you know when she's free to get together and wait.

But don't wait. Find other women.
 

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When she stated "sounds lovely," you go with:

Sounds like a plan Missy (or Sounds good). Give me your number and I will text/call you to make arrangements =) Konada
Hard to recover. Try:

How dare you fall asleep on me! =) I'm not on here much, so let's take our convo offline. Give me your number and I will text/call you sometime. Konada
If no reciprocation, it's too great an investment. On to the next one.
 

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Well she made my job easy for me, went to dance practice and she unmatched me when I didn't reply for a few hours.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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