Getting the date set

[Konada]

Occasionally I encounter the flaky bs and wonder how I can play this out, these girls are from tinder

<After exchanging 2 messages>
Me: I'm not much into the back and forth texting or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you. =)

HB: HAHAHA that sounds lovely!
Me: Perfect, what nights are you free this week?
HB: Sorry I fell asleep! I'm not sure my schedule is in a mess right now :/ (It was pretty late at night)

Pretty sure walking away won't help when her investment is so low and its tinder where the bigger better deal is just a next swipe away.

 

[Tictac]

Occasionally I encounter the flaky bs and wonder how I can play this out, these girls are from tinder

<After exchanging 2 messages>
Me: I'm not much into the back and forth texting or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you. =)

HB: HAHAHA that sounds lovely!
Me: Perfect, what nights are you free this week?
HB: Sorry I fell asleep! I'm not sure my schedule is in a mess right now :/ (It was pretty late at night)

Pretty sure walking away won't help when her investment is so low and its tinder where the bigger better deal is just a next swipe away.

Chasing won't help either.

Tell her to let you know when she's free to get together and wait.

But don't wait. Find other women.

 

[dustmuffin]

I have run into the same thing on tinder. I just move along. More tinderellas to be had.

 

[guru1000]

When she stated "sounds lovely," you go with:

Sounds like a plan Missy (or Sounds good). Give me your number and I will text/call you to make arrangements =) Konada

Hard to recover. Try:

How dare you fall asleep on me! =) I'm not on here much, so let's take our convo offline. Give me your number and I will text/call you sometime. Konada

If no reciprocation, it's too great an investment. On to the next one.

 

[Konada]

Well she made my job easy for me, went to dance practice and she unmatched me when I didn't reply for a few hours.