"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting Sued for Standing Someone Up?!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ab5Z1dgnFQ&feature=related

I really like the ending where Judge Judy tells her:

"You learned a very good lesson, there are alot of nice guys out there, you just got to look very hard" :crackup:

For real, this girl KNEW exectly WHAT SHE WAS GETTING HERSELF INTO (she doesn't want a "NICE GUY"). She liked the bad boy, (even though she knew he had a girlfriend), she still wanted to jump his bones with the knowledge that there is a good chance he will play her. As a matter of fact I really think that she is still in love with him and I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up fvcking her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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please don't learn life lessons from tv.
 

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I couldn't watch it with a straight stomach. Did any money actually change hands in this case?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does that mean we can now bring women to court who are no shows?
if you incur a cost by relying on someone else's promise, and the promisor had reason to believe that you would incur that cost, you can sometimes sue them for promissory estoppel to recover damages. I'm a little surprised Judy didn't make the kid pay anything -- altho spending $900 on homecoming is a little absurd to begin with.


"You learned a very good lesson, there are alot of nice guys out there, you just got to look very hard"
I think that's true. Many "nice guys" aren't actually honorable people; they simply act nice because they are weak and they want to incur favor from others.
 
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