"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting Sued for Standing Someone Up?!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ab5Z1dgnFQ&feature=related

I really like the ending where Judge Judy tells her:

"You learned a very good lesson, there are alot of nice guys out there, you just got to look very hard" :crackup:

For real, this girl KNEW exectly WHAT SHE WAS GETTING HERSELF INTO (she doesn't want a "NICE GUY"). She liked the bad boy, (even though she knew he had a girlfriend), she still wanted to jump his bones with the knowledge that there is a good chance he will play her. As a matter of fact I really think that she is still in love with him and I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up fvcking her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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please don't learn life lessons from tv.
 

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I couldn't watch it with a straight stomach. Did any money actually change hands in this case?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does that mean we can now bring women to court who are no shows?
if you incur a cost by relying on someone else's promise, and the promisor had reason to believe that you would incur that cost, you can sometimes sue them for promissory estoppel to recover damages. I'm a little surprised Judy didn't make the kid pay anything -- altho spending $900 on homecoming is a little absurd to begin with.


"You learned a very good lesson, there are alot of nice guys out there, you just got to look very hard"
I think that's true. Many "nice guys" aren't actually honorable people; they simply act nice because they are weak and they want to incur favor from others.
 
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