"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting Sued for Standing Someone Up?!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ab5Z1dgnFQ&feature=related

I really like the ending where Judge Judy tells her:

"You learned a very good lesson, there are alot of nice guys out there, you just got to look very hard" :crackup:

For real, this girl KNEW exectly WHAT SHE WAS GETTING HERSELF INTO (she doesn't want a "NICE GUY"). She liked the bad boy, (even though she knew he had a girlfriend), she still wanted to jump his bones with the knowledge that there is a good chance he will play her. As a matter of fact I really think that she is still in love with him and I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up fvcking her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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please don't learn life lessons from tv.
 

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I couldn't watch it with a straight stomach. Did any money actually change hands in this case?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Does that mean we can now bring women to court who are no shows?
if you incur a cost by relying on someone else's promise, and the promisor had reason to believe that you would incur that cost, you can sometimes sue them for promissory estoppel to recover damages. I'm a little surprised Judy didn't make the kid pay anything -- altho spending $900 on homecoming is a little absurd to begin with.


"You learned a very good lesson, there are alot of nice guys out there, you just got to look very hard"
I think that's true. Many "nice guys" aren't actually honorable people; they simply act nice because they are weak and they want to incur favor from others.
 
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