"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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getting stuck need help!!!!

unamean

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i went out with this girl the other night. we went to TGI fridays. we had great convosations. then we went to play some pool. then we smoked some weed and we went back to my house to watch some tv. but the weird thing is that i would ask her stuff and she would mumble her words so i couldn't really hear what she was saying.
so we're sitting there and we're both f***ed up, i go in for the kiss and she turned away. and i said "whats wrong" and she was just mumbling and i tried it again and the same thing happend. WTF. so then i took her home and she told me to call her. my question is, whats a better way to initiate the hook up, because it was really awkward and i was very nervous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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maranathaman

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Maybe she was just STONED or something.... ya think?
Weed affects different peeps different ways.
back in the day, when i used to smoke it alot, it would make me super-self-consious. Not condusive to romance if that's her reaction.
In my opinion Alcohol is better than weed for getting ladies to loosen-up. I've even been told by a girl that Alcohol makes her horney! It doesn't get much clearer than that!
 

GaryNas

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Originally posted by maranathaman
I've even been told by a girl that Alcohol makes her horney! It doesn't get much clearer than that!
I've been told the same thing a few times. Althought I've never done week I've been there first hand when alcohol gets the women worked up!
 
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