"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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getting stuck need help!!!!

unamean

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i went out with this girl the other night. we went to TGI fridays. we had great convosations. then we went to play some pool. then we smoked some weed and we went back to my house to watch some tv. but the weird thing is that i would ask her stuff and she would mumble her words so i couldn't really hear what she was saying.
so we're sitting there and we're both f***ed up, i go in for the kiss and she turned away. and i said "whats wrong" and she was just mumbling and i tried it again and the same thing happend. WTF. so then i took her home and she told me to call her. my question is, whats a better way to initiate the hook up, because it was really awkward and i was very nervous.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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maranathaman

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Maybe she was just STONED or something.... ya think?
Weed affects different peeps different ways.
back in the day, when i used to smoke it alot, it would make me super-self-consious. Not condusive to romance if that's her reaction.
In my opinion Alcohol is better than weed for getting ladies to loosen-up. I've even been told by a girl that Alcohol makes her horney! It doesn't get much clearer than that!
 

GaryNas

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Originally posted by maranathaman
I've even been told by a girl that Alcohol makes her horney! It doesn't get much clearer than that!
I've been told the same thing a few times. Althought I've never done week I've been there first hand when alcohol gets the women worked up!
 
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