Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm sure I'll get plenty of ideas/thoughts from u guys.
About four months ago I lent a 'friend' a four figure sum towards paying for his wedding, otherwise it would have had to be cancelled.
No one else would help him out, he's the type of guy who spends money on silly things and goes from boom to boost.
I figured he was a good friend so I lent him the money interest free.
Now it turns out he's becoming ever vague as to when I'll get it back, and has even hinted I should maybe right it off.
As you can imagine he's no longer a friend and I'm torn between feeling a bit of a mug or just plain upset that I helped him out and he's done this.
I am a persuasive person and tried very hard to get him to see reason. I'm now thinking new tactics are required. What gems have you guys got for me?
(mega violence is not an option)
About four months ago I lent a 'friend' a four figure sum towards paying for his wedding, otherwise it would have had to be cancelled.
No one else would help him out, he's the type of guy who spends money on silly things and goes from boom to boost.
I figured he was a good friend so I lent him the money interest free.
Now it turns out he's becoming ever vague as to when I'll get it back, and has even hinted I should maybe right it off.
As you can imagine he's no longer a friend and I'm torn between feeling a bit of a mug or just plain upset that I helped him out and he's done this.
I am a persuasive person and tried very hard to get him to see reason. I'm now thinking new tactics are required. What gems have you guys got for me?
(mega violence is not an option)