"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting set up, Good or Bad?

Modro

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Basically i have been single for a very long time in my eyes. At the moment nothing is really coming togther but i've made huge steps from where i was. My mate whos been single for a while also, managed to get one of my other friends Girlfrend to set him up with someone.

She hangs around with us alot but she is 2 years younger, and still at the last year of school. and she has basically set up my friend with this pretty fine, extremely friendly girl. who is keen without having seen him yet, just spoken and text. I met her for the first time today (b4 he has yet) and we spoke briefly. Its pretty much a sure thing they will go out to some extent.

Is it worth me trying my luck and seeing if there may be someone that i can work on? i know this is pretty AFC but i want to end this drought man im looking at anyway now.

thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lost In the Seas

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don't be desperate, if you are a real man at all you don't need a woman to complete your life, it's much better to wait for a chance and find the right girl than going blind dates
 

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Sure go for it. Nothing harmed in taking a chance. Its all about what happens after you meet her anyway.
 

RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
don't be desperate, if you are a real man at all you don't need a woman to complete your life, it's much better to wait for a chance and find the right girl than going blind dates
IF U ARE A REAL MAN dont take anyones advice !
if you are a real man ui arent scared of being alone
IF U ARE a real man dont wear cologne, FORGET deodarant !
forget showeing
REAL MEN smell like MEN:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nishbuk

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
IF U ARE A REAL MAN dont take anyones advice !
if you are a real man ui arent scared of being alone
IF U ARE a real man dont wear cologne, FORGET deodarant !
forget showeing
REAL MEN smell like MEN:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
lol. Not only is this weird, it doesn't even have anything to do with the situation. In short:

What?
 

RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by nishbuk
lol. Not only is this weird, it doesn't even have anything to do with the situation. In short:

What?
look at who i quoted foo.:p
 
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