"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting set up, Good or Bad?

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Basically i have been single for a very long time in my eyes. At the moment nothing is really coming togther but i've made huge steps from where i was. My mate whos been single for a while also, managed to get one of my other friends Girlfrend to set him up with someone.

She hangs around with us alot but she is 2 years younger, and still at the last year of school. and she has basically set up my friend with this pretty fine, extremely friendly girl. who is keen without having seen him yet, just spoken and text. I met her for the first time today (b4 he has yet) and we spoke briefly. Its pretty much a sure thing they will go out to some extent.

Is it worth me trying my luck and seeing if there may be someone that i can work on? i know this is pretty AFC but i want to end this drought man im looking at anyway now.

thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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don't be desperate, if you are a real man at all you don't need a woman to complete your life, it's much better to wait for a chance and find the right girl than going blind dates
 
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Sure go for it. Nothing harmed in taking a chance. Its all about what happens after you meet her anyway.
 
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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
don't be desperate, if you are a real man at all you don't need a woman to complete your life, it's much better to wait for a chance and find the right girl than going blind dates
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IF U ARE A REAL MAN dont take anyones advice !
if you are a real man ui arent scared of being alone
IF U ARE a real man dont wear cologne, FORGET deodarant !
forget showeing
REAL MEN smell like MEN:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
IF U ARE A REAL MAN dont take anyones advice !
if you are a real man ui arent scared of being alone
IF U ARE a real man dont wear cologne, FORGET deodarant !
forget showeing
REAL MEN smell like MEN:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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lol. Not only is this weird, it doesn't even have anything to do with the situation. In short:

What?
 
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Originally posted by nishbuk
lol. Not only is this weird, it doesn't even have anything to do with the situation. In short:

What?
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look at who i quoted foo.:p
 
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