"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting set up, Good or Bad?

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Modro

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Basically i have been single for a very long time in my eyes. At the moment nothing is really coming togther but i've made huge steps from where i was. My mate whos been single for a while also, managed to get one of my other friends Girlfrend to set him up with someone.

She hangs around with us alot but she is 2 years younger, and still at the last year of school. and she has basically set up my friend with this pretty fine, extremely friendly girl. who is keen without having seen him yet, just spoken and text. I met her for the first time today (b4 he has yet) and we spoke briefly. Its pretty much a sure thing they will go out to some extent.

Is it worth me trying my luck and seeing if there may be someone that i can work on? i know this is pretty AFC but i want to end this drought man im looking at anyway now.

thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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don't be desperate, if you are a real man at all you don't need a woman to complete your life, it's much better to wait for a chance and find the right girl than going blind dates
 
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Sure go for it. Nothing harmed in taking a chance. Its all about what happens after you meet her anyway.
 
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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
don't be desperate, if you are a real man at all you don't need a woman to complete your life, it's much better to wait for a chance and find the right girl than going blind dates
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IF U ARE A REAL MAN dont take anyones advice !
if you are a real man ui arent scared of being alone
IF U ARE a real man dont wear cologne, FORGET deodarant !
forget showeing
REAL MEN smell like MEN:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
IF U ARE A REAL MAN dont take anyones advice !
if you are a real man ui arent scared of being alone
IF U ARE a real man dont wear cologne, FORGET deodarant !
forget showeing
REAL MEN smell like MEN:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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lol. Not only is this weird, it doesn't even have anything to do with the situation. In short:

What?
 
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lol. Not only is this weird, it doesn't even have anything to do with the situation. In short:

What?
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look at who i quoted foo.:p
 
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