"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting RE-Opened

animal crackers

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Let's say your meeting someone for the first time, or talking for the first time that night, what are conversation threads you could use to have them reopen you. I've had some success with nicknames, or inside jokes. I think having people open you is a great way to show that you are the prize, and people are drawn to you. What are some ways to influence people so that they HAVE to ask you a question, or talk to you about something, or even make fun of you. There are always some people that people open more than others, maybe i'm reading too much into this and it all comes down to attitude, but I think there are certain ways of talking that have people coming back for more.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
 

CaptainObvious#1

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Originally posted by Mojo604
Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
Or you could read the bible or even read through the forums a little.


Eye contact is key. Cold, reopen, anything. Even making a funny face (nothing too extravagant though, you might look like a ****). It will get their attention again. If they want to speak to you they will.
 
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