"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting RE-Opened

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Let's say your meeting someone for the first time, or talking for the first time that night, what are conversation threads you could use to have them reopen you. I've had some success with nicknames, or inside jokes. I think having people open you is a great way to show that you are the prize, and people are drawn to you. What are some ways to influence people so that they HAVE to ask you a question, or talk to you about something, or even make fun of you. There are always some people that people open more than others, maybe i'm reading too much into this and it all comes down to attitude, but I think there are certain ways of talking that have people coming back for more.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
 
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Originally posted by Mojo604
Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
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Or you could read the bible or even read through the forums a little.


Eye contact is key. Cold, reopen, anything. Even making a funny face (nothing too extravagant though, you might look like a ****). It will get their attention again. If they want to speak to you they will.
 
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