"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting RE-Opened

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Let's say your meeting someone for the first time, or talking for the first time that night, what are conversation threads you could use to have them reopen you. I've had some success with nicknames, or inside jokes. I think having people open you is a great way to show that you are the prize, and people are drawn to you. What are some ways to influence people so that they HAVE to ask you a question, or talk to you about something, or even make fun of you. There are always some people that people open more than others, maybe i'm reading too much into this and it all comes down to attitude, but I think there are certain ways of talking that have people coming back for more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
 

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Originally posted by Mojo604
Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
Or you could read the bible or even read through the forums a little.


Eye contact is key. Cold, reopen, anything. Even making a funny face (nothing too extravagant though, you might look like a ****). It will get their attention again. If they want to speak to you they will.
 
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