"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting RE-Opened

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Let's say your meeting someone for the first time, or talking for the first time that night, what are conversation threads you could use to have them reopen you. I've had some success with nicknames, or inside jokes. I think having people open you is a great way to show that you are the prize, and people are drawn to you. What are some ways to influence people so that they HAVE to ask you a question, or talk to you about something, or even make fun of you. There are always some people that people open more than others, maybe i'm reading too much into this and it all comes down to attitude, but I think there are certain ways of talking that have people coming back for more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
 

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Originally posted by Mojo604
Maybe no one replied becuz they dont know what tha shiet it is you mean by "open". i have no clue what it means...:D
Or you could read the bible or even read through the forums a little.


Eye contact is key. Cold, reopen, anything. Even making a funny face (nothing too extravagant though, you might look like a ****). It will get their attention again. If they want to speak to you they will.
 
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