"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting over ****?

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I have been feeling weird over the last while, I fought this idiot in hockey, and I clearly won, but yet a few kids who know him, say he won, and I am just really pissed about people saying this, because It almost was ruining my image. This was like a week ago, and I still feel affected by it.

Also, I had a concert friday, and that was possibly one of the most fun times ever, but there was a bunch of girls around, and I was too scared to go over and talk to em. My Confidence around people I don't know, is just awful. :down:

Any help please
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fvck him up again .. this time infront of a larger group so everyone knows who's the champ..
 
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You know what, I don't need this stupid BS thread, why the **** do I care if a bunch of tiny little grade 10 kids are trying to defend a kid nobody likes, who I killed, not to mention, it was in hockey. If It wasn't, then I could have used my wrestling, and broken his face into the ground.

And about random girls. I don't need them either, they are probably a bunch of ****ing sluts anyways, why should I care about them, who are good for nothing but sucking my ****.

/end of rant
 
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Calm it S.Y.L lol


I mean, no one cares about your fight. Don't fvck him up again, chances are you beat him up one he'll just b!tch out unless he's stupid.

And you should just walk over to them, simple as that really.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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S.Y.L said:
You know what, I don't need this stupid BS thread, why the **** do I care if a bunch of tiny little grade 10 kids are trying to defend a kid nobody likes, who I killed, not to mention, it was in hockey. If It wasn't, then I could have used my wrestling, and broken his face into the ground.

And about random girls. I don't need them either, they are probably a bunch of ****ing sluts anyways, why should I care about them, who are good for nothing but sucking my ****.

/end of rant
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Good attitude to have brother.

Fvck everyone else. Don't sacrifice your future again because of what others think of you. Who gives a flying fvck what they think?
 
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Thanks guys, I feel way better now, my alpha levels were getting low there.
 
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