"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting over ****?

S.Y.L

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I have been feeling weird over the last while, I fought this idiot in hockey, and I clearly won, but yet a few kids who know him, say he won, and I am just really pissed about people saying this, because It almost was ruining my image. This was like a week ago, and I still feel affected by it.

Also, I had a concert friday, and that was possibly one of the most fun times ever, but there was a bunch of girls around, and I was too scared to go over and talk to em. My Confidence around people I don't know, is just awful. :down:

Any help please
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cola

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Fvck him up again .. this time infront of a larger group so everyone knows who's the champ..
 

S.Y.L

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You know what, I don't need this stupid BS thread, why the **** do I care if a bunch of tiny little grade 10 kids are trying to defend a kid nobody likes, who I killed, not to mention, it was in hockey. If It wasn't, then I could have used my wrestling, and broken his face into the ground.

And about random girls. I don't need them either, they are probably a bunch of ****ing sluts anyways, why should I care about them, who are good for nothing but sucking my ****.

/end of rant
 

Analyzeit

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Calm it S.Y.L lol


I mean, no one cares about your fight. Don't fvck him up again, chances are you beat him up one he'll just b!tch out unless he's stupid.

And you should just walk over to them, simple as that really.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desert Fox

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S.Y.L said:
You know what, I don't need this stupid BS thread, why the **** do I care if a bunch of tiny little grade 10 kids are trying to defend a kid nobody likes, who I killed, not to mention, it was in hockey. If It wasn't, then I could have used my wrestling, and broken his face into the ground.

And about random girls. I don't need them either, they are probably a bunch of ****ing sluts anyways, why should I care about them, who are good for nothing but sucking my ****.

/end of rant
Good attitude to have brother.

Fvck everyone else. Don't sacrifice your future again because of what others think of you. Who gives a flying fvck what they think?
 

S.Y.L

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Thanks guys, I feel way better now, my alpha levels were getting low there.
 
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