"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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getting over your fears! and being confident!

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this is a guide of getting over fears, do not give me the credit i found it on another site but it helped me with my fears so i think it will with you guys and girls if you have any enjoy
( url of site at bottom)


Dealing With Personal Fears


Do you have fears about dating? Many people have fears about dating (some fears are known and some are unknown). As you deal with individual fears such as saying the wrong things or not knowing what to say or do, you will begin to gain confidence. The best way to prepare yourself is to think about possible situations that may arise and think how you would respond. If you have made mistakes while dating in the past think through ways you could have effectively responded in the same situation. Learning to be a fun date does take practice.

Be Confident!


Asking someone out takes confidence. In fact, people who are more confident are more likely to get a first date with someone. Why is this so? Success comes in how we communicate (both verbal and non-verbal). Have you ever analyzed what verbal and non-verbal messages you send to perspective dating partners? If you are struggling with confidence, I suggest that you step back and evaluate what is keeping you from being confident in your dating. Once you have done this create a game plan to develop more confidence. This should help you feel more confident. Go forward with confidence. It will impact how you are received.

do not give me the credit for these tips but u can still reply and say whate ever and now heres the website of where i got the tips from date.lifetips.com/Cat.asp__Q__id__E__55987 enjoy :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gav

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i think pook said it best

Oh, we are undone! The forum, that was our salvation, is now destroying us!

But what is the purpose of writing and reading? Every now and then, as common as it is seen almost weekly, appears a tip from a freshly registered member that says,

"H3LLO GENT5LMEN! U NEED CONF7IDENCE TO GET DA WOAHMAN!"

Immediately, I pick up the Pook phone and call Allen's top secret number. "Allen! Did you read that tip? It is about confidence! Who would have thought!?"

Allen puts forth the emergency meeting. All the elder Don Juans meet in the super secret forum (that no one knows!) as we react to this discovery.

"Getting women has something to do with CONFIDENCE? Why, who would have thought!?" says one.

"Not I!" said an elder Don Juan. "Confidence is needed to get women? Incredible tip!"

"The tip will alter people's lives," one solemny declared. "Until that newbie poster spoke, no one knew about confidence!"
 

ryanvalmont

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Gav your an *******...the guy is trying to help out people who have NO CONFIDENCE.

Instead of being a complete ****!,either make a comment that is useful towards this post...or don't reply..SIMPLE!

Actually i love it when newbie guys say things like this...it's new blood and new ideas (well some)

Give the guy a break as probally people did for you when you were a newbie afc huh?!.
 

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What if you're not confident in things outside of dating/asking girls out?
Like what if you're in a situation where you freak out and just freeze up?
 

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well then u need to build up ur confidence like talk to 5 strangers a day make sure there not rough tho and make sure there ur own age
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Shiraz
well then u need to build up ur confidence like talk to 5 strangers a day make sure there not rough tho and make sure there ur own age
Err.. should you be giving advice like this when you post stuff like:

how can i talk to really popular girls??
 

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Originally posted by Shiraz
well thats how i became more confident and thats old now u dum ****
Wow, you really do seem more confident now. How's it going with the popular girls?
 

Ever onward

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Huh?

How can you say that's old? You posted that like a week ago!
 

jonny football hero

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Originally posted by Shiraz
well then u need to build up ur confidence like talk to 5 strangers a day make sure there not rough tho and make sure there ur own age
Telling shy people to "go talk to five strangers a day" doesn't work. THEY ARE SHY!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This shiraz is a troll.. I got him on msn threating to stab me and ****... He claimed talking to a girl was like being in a room with 10000000 helicopters with rockets pointed at u and u had to get out.. Hes a little troll. Ignore everything HE types..
 

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Originally posted by Shiraz
wtf u on about jiza ur gettin banned now
Are you okay Shiraz? Did he hurt you?

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