Work. And yes I know, don't **** where you eat and all that, but it's a very liberal place with many couples and married couples working there, so that's not the problem. Problem is attraction is there and it's not going away
Ok Broski. I can definitely help you out here.
Had the same situation a few years ago (9 to be exact).
Me and this girl worked together. Hit it off something fantastic. She had a boyfriend and I wasn't at all interested in her.
But then...somewhere down the line, we had this connection. We were flirting and things were getting kinda serious.
That's when it all f****d up. I started seeing her in a different light. Like I was attracted to her. That was when it was game over.
Gone was my flirty ways.
Suddenly, I was chasing her.
And the more I was chasing her, the less she was interested.
Soon the whole damn office knew about it.
The more I said, the bigger the grave I dug for myself, but I did not know how to get myself out of it.
Then I came on this site.
Learnt to shut my mouth.
Don't talk to anyone about this.
Soon enough she left the department and that was that.
Those who knew her, also left and it all faded into memories.
Time really does heal.
I know how tough this is.
But you just have to stick it out if she knows how you feel and she is not responding.
Really the worst part was what others thought of me.
I felt like a laughing stock.