I finally got tired of all the anger I felt towards women and went and seen a psychiatrist. He told me it was my fault, which I already knew lol. He told me my main problem was anxiety and he put on Effexor to help. I know being man I have to be the one to ask the woman out but when it came time I always froze up and then I would beat myself up and then start blaming women. Currently there are four women at work that are in different departments then I'am that I'm gonna ask out. I had an opportunity to ask two of them out today and I froze up again and came home from work upset. It seems so hopeless at times and I think thats what bothers me the most. I've made alot of improvements over the years and I know It'll come.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Getting over negative emotions
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
do you realize, that you literary, went and looked for a magic pill to get over your women problems. wow.
just grow some balls man. hate to be that blunt but it is what it is.
just grow some balls man. hate to be that blunt but it is what it is.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
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It truly works wonders. Take your time with it.
You'll need to put in your email to get access to six free POWERFUL videos, and then they'll try to sell you access to an additional 15 or so POWERFUL videos (trust me, I've been through them all.)
But the sales is not at all pushy, only an email every couple days.
The six free videos are pure, useful content that can really help.
And stay the FUKK away from any pills some doc gives you for emotional problems.
Thanks warrior, I've actually have talked to these girls I want to ask out, some of them on numerous occasions lol. The pill is for more then just anxiety with girls but i'm not getting into it. I'm trying to improve myself more and more by getting out of my shell and talking to people. I"m also gonna be joining a gym this week. Its coming, its just gonna take some time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DangNammit
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Hammer - watch that med... a friend was on that for years and had horrible withdraws from it... look around on net...