I finally got tired of all the anger I felt towards women and went and seen a psychiatrist. He told me it was my fault, which I already knew lol. He told me my main problem was anxiety and he put on Effexor to help. I know being man I have to be the one to ask the woman out but when it came time I always froze up and then I would beat myself up and then start blaming women. Currently there are four women at work that are in different departments then I'am that I'm gonna ask out. I had an opportunity to ask two of them out today and I froze up again and came home from work upset. It seems so hopeless at times and I think thats what bothers me the most. I've made alot of improvements over the years and I know It'll come.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Getting over negative emotions
- Thread starter Hammer79
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
do you realize, that you literary, went and looked for a magic pill to get over your women problems. wow.
just grow some balls man. hate to be that blunt but it is what it is.
just grow some balls man. hate to be that blunt but it is what it is.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Try this: http://www.recreateyourlife.com/free/
It truly works wonders. Take your time with it.
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It truly works wonders. Take your time with it.
You'll need to put in your email to get access to six free POWERFUL videos, and then they'll try to sell you access to an additional 15 or so POWERFUL videos (trust me, I've been through them all.)
But the sales is not at all pushy, only an email every couple days.
The six free videos are pure, useful content that can really help.
And stay the FUKK away from any pills some doc gives you for emotional problems.
Thanks warrior, I've actually have talked to these girls I want to ask out, some of them on numerous occasions lol. The pill is for more then just anxiety with girls but i'm not getting into it. I'm trying to improve myself more and more by getting out of my shell and talking to people. I"m also gonna be joining a gym this week. Its coming, its just gonna take some time.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DangNammit
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Hammer - watch that med... a friend was on that for years and had horrible withdraws from it... look around on net...