"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting over her.

LikRetsam

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We all have standards. Some are real low and others are extremly high and strict. This is for those of us who care about who we date. Nothing but the best.

There aren't many quality people in the world. Not many at all. Even less is the number of quality girls. And when you finally get her and eventually break up with her... You can't stop thinking of her.

She is an hb9, captain of her soccer team, star of the school play, have a very nice tan and every guy dreams of being with her.

Such girls are rare. Girls that are doing something with their lives, engaging in activites besides getting high or drunk. And when we find them, we don't ever want to let go. Look how much time it took us to find them!

This is 1 side of the coin. The other, the one we never look at for some reason, is us. Me, you, don juan!

Yes this girl is doing something with her life. But so are we. We, infact, are doing MORE with our lives than she is. We, the don juans, are even rarer than these quality girls. Because they are mere quality and we are pure gold, we realise that once again, we are the prize. We are what should be sought for a simple reason: we are worth more than the chick.

Yeah it sucks, you wish you still had her. Why? Because she was worth it. She was finally worth it. But that was then, and this is now. She's still in your mind all day long. Even worse, you have to see her almost every day! But what does it matter?

She's been eliminated from the game. No longer shall she have the honor of being part of your life. Put yourself in her position, it sucks worse than yours!

It's important to want to forget about her. It's important to be man enough to let go of the past. More importantly, remembering that she lost more than you did and if anybody should be haunted by the other it's her. Your life didn't revolve around her at one time and you were happy. May that era return.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible-worthy post.
You, my friend, are the man at this. Great style of writing btw. Enjoy your threads.

Wish I'd read thsi 11 months ago :p It only took me say...4-5 months on my own to realize all that. Anyone on tis site who ever breaksupw ith they're gf should be forced to read this.
good job man.
 

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LOL....

I haven't seen him this...sentimental before. Most of the time he's busting on the newbies retardedness, :p. Well, I suppose there's more to everyone than meets the eye. Good post, Lik.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lik for administrator status.

lik deserves his own title. although hes not a mod hes the new pook.
 

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whoa chill out there, your nose is turning brown.
 

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Hahaha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Wacky-1
Most of the time he's busting on the newbies retardedness
Quite abundant. You'd think he's getting paid for it.
 

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Sorry that I never post in these forums anymore, but I was just about to puke after reading that page long post on how to get over a girl. Honestly you guys are putting a lot of thought into a very simple and natural thing. My advice for getting over a girl? She's so sweet, she's so cute, she's one of a kind, right? Well, go on dates with 10 other girls and then tell me how much you still care about that *very special* girl.
 
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