"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting over her.

LikRetsam

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We all have standards. Some are real low and others are extremly high and strict. This is for those of us who care about who we date. Nothing but the best.

There aren't many quality people in the world. Not many at all. Even less is the number of quality girls. And when you finally get her and eventually break up with her... You can't stop thinking of her.

She is an hb9, captain of her soccer team, star of the school play, have a very nice tan and every guy dreams of being with her.

Such girls are rare. Girls that are doing something with their lives, engaging in activites besides getting high or drunk. And when we find them, we don't ever want to let go. Look how much time it took us to find them!

This is 1 side of the coin. The other, the one we never look at for some reason, is us. Me, you, don juan!

Yes this girl is doing something with her life. But so are we. We, infact, are doing MORE with our lives than she is. We, the don juans, are even rarer than these quality girls. Because they are mere quality and we are pure gold, we realise that once again, we are the prize. We are what should be sought for a simple reason: we are worth more than the chick.

Yeah it sucks, you wish you still had her. Why? Because she was worth it. She was finally worth it. But that was then, and this is now. She's still in your mind all day long. Even worse, you have to see her almost every day! But what does it matter?

She's been eliminated from the game. No longer shall she have the honor of being part of your life. Put yourself in her position, it sucks worse than yours!

It's important to want to forget about her. It's important to be man enough to let go of the past. More importantly, remembering that she lost more than you did and if anybody should be haunted by the other it's her. Your life didn't revolve around her at one time and you were happy. May that era return.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible-worthy post.
You, my friend, are the man at this. Great style of writing btw. Enjoy your threads.

Wish I'd read thsi 11 months ago :p It only took me say...4-5 months on my own to realize all that. Anyone on tis site who ever breaksupw ith they're gf should be forced to read this.
good job man.
 

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LOL....

I haven't seen him this...sentimental before. Most of the time he's busting on the newbies retardedness, :p. Well, I suppose there's more to everyone than meets the eye. Good post, Lik.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lik for administrator status.

lik deserves his own title. although hes not a mod hes the new pook.
 

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whoa chill out there, your nose is turning brown.
 

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Hahaha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Wacky-1
Most of the time he's busting on the newbies retardedness
Quite abundant. You'd think he's getting paid for it.
 

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Sorry that I never post in these forums anymore, but I was just about to puke after reading that page long post on how to get over a girl. Honestly you guys are putting a lot of thought into a very simple and natural thing. My advice for getting over a girl? She's so sweet, she's so cute, she's one of a kind, right? Well, go on dates with 10 other girls and then tell me how much you still care about that *very special* girl.
 
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