"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting over an ex?

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S0LID

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Ok, I'm getting a bit pissed off with myself now, it's been 2 years since this relationship ended (I ended it), and I still find myself trying to get her back... 10 minutes ago I sent her a message over some facebook style site, saying some jokes, and trying to find out how her relationship is going... I'm turning into the joke!

I dunno what to do... this moment, I deleted the account I messaged her off. I need to get over her ahhh... I never thought I'd be the twirp I used to laugh at.

What shall I do guys? I just want to be free... I'm pretty decent with girls, Since we split, I've been on atleast 50 dates... what can I do to get over this oneitus, I want to fix my mind before new year.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Replace what part of your life she was. She will be worthless to you then.
 
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Agreed with commentor above..

It took me a long time to get over my college girlfriend because she represented those carefree college days to me...

Once I made a new social circle and began enjoying life (without wishing i was back in the Frat House) I soon got over her..

Dont get me wrong... haha I still occasionally "glance" at her Facebook profile just to see what she is up to ... (married)

But I think everyone has at least one girl that they never quite get over...
 
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S0LID said:
Ok, I'm getting a bit pissed off with myself now, it's been 2 years since this relationship ended (I ended it), and I still find myself trying to get her back... 10 minutes ago I sent her a message over some facebook style site, saying some jokes, and trying to find out how her relationship is going... I'm turning into the joke!

I dunno what to do... this moment, I deleted the account I messaged her off. I need to get over her ahhh... I never thought I'd be the twirp I used to laugh at.

What shall I do guys? I just want to be free... I'm pretty decent with girls, Since we split, I've been on atleast 50 dates... what can I do to get over this oneitus, I want to fix my mind before new year.
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Why are you trying to get her back? No other prospects, low self esteem?
 
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