"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting over an ex?

S0LID

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Ok, I'm getting a bit pissed off with myself now, it's been 2 years since this relationship ended (I ended it), and I still find myself trying to get her back... 10 minutes ago I sent her a message over some facebook style site, saying some jokes, and trying to find out how her relationship is going... I'm turning into the joke!

I dunno what to do... this moment, I deleted the account I messaged her off. I need to get over her ahhh... I never thought I'd be the twirp I used to laugh at.

What shall I do guys? I just want to be free... I'm pretty decent with girls, Since we split, I've been on atleast 50 dates... what can I do to get over this oneitus, I want to fix my mind before new year.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PeeGee

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Replace what part of your life she was. She will be worthless to you then.
 

Bobby Rio

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Agreed with commentor above..

It took me a long time to get over my college girlfriend because she represented those carefree college days to me...

Once I made a new social circle and began enjoying life (without wishing i was back in the Frat House) I soon got over her..

Dont get me wrong... haha I still occasionally "glance" at her Facebook profile just to see what she is up to ... (married)

But I think everyone has at least one girl that they never quite get over...
 

Scorpio13c

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S0LID said:
Ok, I'm getting a bit pissed off with myself now, it's been 2 years since this relationship ended (I ended it), and I still find myself trying to get her back... 10 minutes ago I sent her a message over some facebook style site, saying some jokes, and trying to find out how her relationship is going... I'm turning into the joke!

I dunno what to do... this moment, I deleted the account I messaged her off. I need to get over her ahhh... I never thought I'd be the twirp I used to laugh at.

What shall I do guys? I just want to be free... I'm pretty decent with girls, Since we split, I've been on atleast 50 dates... what can I do to get over this oneitus, I want to fix my mind before new year.
Why are you trying to get her back? No other prospects, low self esteem?
 
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