"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting over an ex?

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S0LID

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Ok, I'm getting a bit pissed off with myself now, it's been 2 years since this relationship ended (I ended it), and I still find myself trying to get her back... 10 minutes ago I sent her a message over some facebook style site, saying some jokes, and trying to find out how her relationship is going... I'm turning into the joke!

I dunno what to do... this moment, I deleted the account I messaged her off. I need to get over her ahhh... I never thought I'd be the twirp I used to laugh at.

What shall I do guys? I just want to be free... I'm pretty decent with girls, Since we split, I've been on atleast 50 dates... what can I do to get over this oneitus, I want to fix my mind before new year.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Replace what part of your life she was. She will be worthless to you then.
 
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Agreed with commentor above..

It took me a long time to get over my college girlfriend because she represented those carefree college days to me...

Once I made a new social circle and began enjoying life (without wishing i was back in the Frat House) I soon got over her..

Dont get me wrong... haha I still occasionally "glance" at her Facebook profile just to see what she is up to ... (married)

But I think everyone has at least one girl that they never quite get over...
 
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S0LID said:
Ok, I'm getting a bit pissed off with myself now, it's been 2 years since this relationship ended (I ended it), and I still find myself trying to get her back... 10 minutes ago I sent her a message over some facebook style site, saying some jokes, and trying to find out how her relationship is going... I'm turning into the joke!

I dunno what to do... this moment, I deleted the account I messaged her off. I need to get over her ahhh... I never thought I'd be the twirp I used to laugh at.

What shall I do guys? I just want to be free... I'm pretty decent with girls, Since we split, I've been on atleast 50 dates... what can I do to get over this oneitus, I want to fix my mind before new year.
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Why are you trying to get her back? No other prospects, low self esteem?
 
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