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Getting older /lack of options= lowering standards?

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There are a few good examples where older guys look after themselves or guys who end up with some good looking females (considering he has a good job)

But the bad examples out there is countless. Trust me . My parents have a pub . I see many different people every day , not only customers . The amount of ugliness is beyond reach. People don’t give a shyt how they look like . All these fat ugly women with kids that i talked about they’re in their early 20s.
It’s disgusting. Some times i want to even puke. It’s even more ridiculous that only guys are the only ones with a taste of fashion. Women walk around in their pink/green hair with some 1970s clothing. And their attitude is even worse than some queen.

It’s normal for good looking women to have such attitude. They are light years better than the average woman and they know they are handful in numbers. Meanwhile there are a lot of good looking guys. But most of guys would eat whatever it gets served to them . They don’t have the guts to get what they like . They think is better with some fat ugly chick cause it’s easier and she has a V . Meanwhile good looking ones are high maintenance and need some guy with heavy balls. It’s hard to be the former if you are a chicken.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women doesn't enhance my life and it shouldn't be for any man.

A women, by virtue of being in a relationship with me will learn lots and gets to experience life the likes she has never known.

For me, women r there to pleasure and amuse me with all their womanly games and activities. It is fun.
Oh right.... lucky them! Meanwhile, they could be burning their best years under the impression it is going somewhere.... but then, I'm sure you are honest and not leading them on.
 
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I was standing in line yesterday next to a hot tall athletic young blonde at an outdoors/camping store. She was constantly getting texted. She obviously at least to me had been rich all her life and she was returning a tent (cheap one). She wouldn't even really look about me and I'd assume that she thought I was an old creeper not sure. I didn't really look at her either just peripheral until she was at the counter then I looked at her as5 her legs (shorts), hair, arms, hands, knees, side of her face. She undoubtedly receives hundreds of prying eyes a day, a week. She walked and moved as if she knew she was being watched and she must know, of course she knows, but if she gets her hair made up very stylistically and with detail and work (long hair), then and with her shorts showing her smooth tan legs and tight showing her as5 crack through the textiles hugging her, then it's like ok, you act as if you're unwanted "attention," yet you dress up to get MAXIMUM attention (from dudes). There is no logic. There is only emotion. It's something we men want to eradicate, to cut through. We want to removed the bullsh!t but there it is glaring at us day in and day out. There's nothing we can do. So we men dress up to the 10s, it's not the same, and only marginally helps. It may get a smile or a warm welcome or a little convo, but is it worth it? as it is worth it for the female? to spend all that money & time. It's all such a game and in the end fvcking pvssy is just fvcking pvssy some sweeter than others. It's there, then it's gone. It even gets borrrring. She's "I know what I can give him..." "It's EVERYTHING to him..." "How can I get the highest bidder?"
This kind of attention is crack to these woman. there is one thing better than not giving it... and that's being actually repelled by it... when you see it for what it really is. This puts men in a position of strength, which may be crack to a better kind of woman. I think men today need to return to the old ideal of the suave gentlemen. I remember my old dignified grandfather grinning down to me as a youth... yep, I want to be like that! This rational Stoic attitude has been lost today.

There is not a lot I can do about the state of the world today, but there sure as hell is a lot I can do about myself.
 

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Aristotle on accidental relationships/ friendships.,,, being based on utility or pleasure. And then there is the friendship of the good/ rational.

 

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Oh right.... lucky them! Meanwhile, they could be burning their best years under the impression it is going somewhere.... but then, I'm sure you are honest and not leading them on.
I lie, cheat, bluff, do devilish deeds by the dozens each day and yet women admire/love me.

Nerds r always jealous :D

How could he possibly do that?
 

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I lie, cheat, bluff, do devilish deeds by the dozens each day and yet women admire/love me.

Nerds r always jealous :D

How could he possibly do that?
So you tell them what they need to hear and do little to nothing for them?
 

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So you tell them what they need to hear and do little to nothing for them?
I lie, cheat and do devilish deeds to men that's on par or above par.

As for women, I just do as I please and they r free to decide to either follow me for the ride or not.

So that u may understand;
If it pleases me to give my gf some flowers I'll do it, or if it amuses me to see the smile on her face when I buy something cheap like a key chain on my travels, I'll do it. Anyhow I'll only do those things on special occasions.
 

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Older men are in and chicks are actively looking for them. Mid 20's has probably been average for me, in the last decade or so, with a few low 20's this year come August, after a break up. I had an early mid-life crisis in my late 20's, thinking the world was going to end at 30. My 30's were stellar. So much fvcking debauchery. A man can age well, so long as he doesn't grow complacent and takes care of himself. This chit should become easier, the older he gets, imo.
Well all these girls with daddy issues running around with no dads...what else you expect. I agree, women in their 20s dating men in the mid-late 30s is being quite spread lately.
 

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You are right: standards are largely subjective; it merely depends on whom you ask.

I have zero regard for others' standards. Espi is an equal-opportunity sex machine. I have screwed exceptionally beautiful women and exceptionally ugly women. I have also stuck my c0ck in a few fat women. And I have loved them all.

But I personally disagree with you. In my opinion, women are looking hotter these days, especially older women.
Well they have to. None is approaching them if they don't and nowadays it would be mental death for a woman not to gather as much attention as she possibly can with all the different ways there are in the social media.
 

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As the title says . I see a lot of older guys(mostly ugly) finding attractive other very ugly fat women . How is this possible ?

Also i see a lot of people mostly guys who are fine looking... with some fat ugly women . The worst part is that these women usually have 1-2 kids already with some other guy or make 2-3 kids with that guy and later they divorce and secure a long term payment.

How is tht really possible? Is man really a creature who choose his partner mostly of the way the female looks like?

The standards have fallen a lot and if you ask me i believe women turn uglier every year.
I think those guys should try sugar daddy game. I don’t know why an older guy in his 40s would want to date an old divorced woman.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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