"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting Myself out of this Financial PIT?

WORKEROUTER

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So here's the deal. I have some financial problems.

First off is my credit card. After getting one a few months ago, I managed to rack up my limit of $1,000. I am now paying the minimum monthly charges. However, I need to get this off my back because I do not want it to screw up my credit for the future.

Second off, I don't seem to make enough to actually invest anything!

Right now I work about 20 hours per week and go to school. After taxes, I make around $7/hour at crappy jobs (cashier, washing dishes, cleaning), leaving me with about $140 per week. That equates to about $560 per month. After rent, I barely have enough to live on (luckily I get some food money subsidized).

Point is, it seems impossible for me to get into investments and such when I am barely pulling in enough money to subsist in a meager lifestyle!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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STR8UP

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How is $1,000 in credit card debt going to screw up your credit?

You're a big boy, you ran up the tab now figure out how to pay if off. That how you build credit!

And hold your horses, cowboy. You're only what, 18? And you want to be making an outrageous salary so you can invest? Read the books, build the credit, and eventually you will be ready to do something.
 

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Str8up is right. $1000 is nothing to worry about, just keep paying it down and don't add to it and you will be okay. It won't hurt you to hold a little bit of CC debt for awhile.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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