"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting Myself out of this Financial PIT?

WORKEROUTER

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So here's the deal. I have some financial problems.

First off is my credit card. After getting one a few months ago, I managed to rack up my limit of $1,000. I am now paying the minimum monthly charges. However, I need to get this off my back because I do not want it to screw up my credit for the future.

Second off, I don't seem to make enough to actually invest anything!

Right now I work about 20 hours per week and go to school. After taxes, I make around $7/hour at crappy jobs (cashier, washing dishes, cleaning), leaving me with about $140 per week. That equates to about $560 per month. After rent, I barely have enough to live on (luckily I get some food money subsidized).

Point is, it seems impossible for me to get into investments and such when I am barely pulling in enough money to subsist in a meager lifestyle!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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STR8UP

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How is $1,000 in credit card debt going to screw up your credit?

You're a big boy, you ran up the tab now figure out how to pay if off. That how you build credit!

And hold your horses, cowboy. You're only what, 18? And you want to be making an outrageous salary so you can invest? Read the books, build the credit, and eventually you will be ready to do something.
 

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Str8up is right. $1000 is nothing to worry about, just keep paying it down and don't add to it and you will be okay. It won't hurt you to hold a little bit of CC debt for awhile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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