Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting Myself out of this Financial PIT?

WORKEROUTER

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So here's the deal. I have some financial problems.

First off is my credit card. After getting one a few months ago, I managed to rack up my limit of $1,000. I am now paying the minimum monthly charges. However, I need to get this off my back because I do not want it to screw up my credit for the future.

Second off, I don't seem to make enough to actually invest anything!

Right now I work about 20 hours per week and go to school. After taxes, I make around $7/hour at crappy jobs (cashier, washing dishes, cleaning), leaving me with about $140 per week. That equates to about $560 per month. After rent, I barely have enough to live on (luckily I get some food money subsidized).

Point is, it seems impossible for me to get into investments and such when I am barely pulling in enough money to subsist in a meager lifestyle!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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STR8UP

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How is $1,000 in credit card debt going to screw up your credit?

You're a big boy, you ran up the tab now figure out how to pay if off. That how you build credit!

And hold your horses, cowboy. You're only what, 18? And you want to be making an outrageous salary so you can invest? Read the books, build the credit, and eventually you will be ready to do something.
 

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Str8up is right. $1000 is nothing to worry about, just keep paying it down and don't add to it and you will be okay. It won't hurt you to hold a little bit of CC debt for awhile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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