i recently met this girl, she's really hot, smart, most of all she's very innocent, and a virgin( i know this for a fact!)we've been out a couple of times, we would talk for hours, and i'm getting a really good vibe. i feel like the chemistry is there and i tell her i really like her and she says she's flattered, and she doesnt know what to say and that "Im an awsome friend to have"... Talking about giving out mix signals... should i keep trying or too early to give up? has anyone been through this, give me some feedback thanks
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
getting mixed signals... what do you guys think?
- Thread starter hbxdoode
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Maybe it is you who is giving mixed signals. Find a way to tell her that she is sexy. If you are having a good conversation with her, then get her phone number.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If so then maybe she's not what you're really looking for. Besides how do you know how innocent she is, you don't follow her every move.hbxdoode said:she's not that kind of girl to just spread her legs... i would love to!!! did i mentioned that she is very innocent
Uh, I'm sure she's sucked her fair share of c0ck. I know lot's of "virgins" that have done all sorts of things with guys, but if it's only a dildo and oral it means they are still a virgin.
I can assure you she's not innocent.
I can assure you she's not innocent.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.