"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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getting mixed signals... what do you guys think?

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i recently met this girl, she's really hot, smart, most of all she's very innocent, and a virgin( i know this for a fact!)we've been out a couple of times, we would talk for hours, and i'm getting a really good vibe. i feel like the chemistry is there and i tell her i really like her and she says she's flattered, and she doesnt know what to say and that "Im an awsome friend to have"... Talking about giving out mix signals... should i keep trying or too early to give up? has anyone been through this, give me some feedback thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think you should have told her you liked her especially several times. Shes playing the games on you by not saying I like you back and saying Im flattered.

Keep talking I guess or maybe ignore her for a bit?
 

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Maybe it is you who is giving mixed signals. Find a way to tell her that she is sexy. If you are having a good conversation with her, then get her phone number.
 

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Again it sounds like you're in the friends zone. And there's no way for a fact you can know she's a virgin. You need to either escalate or do a takeaway.
 

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I agree with ketostick

Just try something on her, otherwise move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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does NO ONE search on sosauve anymore? your thread is the same as 10000 others

DONT TELL HER YOU LIKE HER, SHOW HER YOU LIKE HER BY ****ING HER BRAINS OUT

chump
 

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she's not that kind of girl to just spread her legs... i would love to!!! did i mentioned that she is very innocent
 

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hbxdoode said:
she's not that kind of girl to just spread her legs... i would love to!!! did i mentioned that she is very innocent
If so then maybe she's not what you're really looking for. Besides how do you know how innocent she is, you don't follow her every move.
 

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Uh, I'm sure she's sucked her fair share of c0ck. I know lot's of "virgins" that have done all sorts of things with guys, but if it's only a dildo and oral it means they are still a virgin.

I can assure you she's not innocent.
 

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"I'm an awesome friend to have"


Dude, that sounds like dangerous friend zone territory. I would try and make your real interests/intentions known asap or you could be in trouble.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is it possible to get out of the friend zone, once youre in? what do you guys think? i really like this girl!!!
 

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Like, I said this is your chance to do something?

You can't sit there and wait for her to do something, you do.
 
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