i recently met this girl, she's really hot, smart, most of all she's very innocent, and a virgin( i know this for a fact!)we've been out a couple of times, we would talk for hours, and i'm getting a really good vibe. i feel like the chemistry is there and i tell her i really like her and she says she's flattered, and she doesnt know what to say and that "Im an awsome friend to have"... Talking about giving out mix signals... should i keep trying or too early to give up? has anyone been through this, give me some feedback thanks
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getting mixed signals... what do you guys think?
- Thread starter hbxdoode
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
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Maybe it is you who is giving mixed signals. Find a way to tell her that she is sexy. If you are having a good conversation with her, then get her phone number.
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If so then maybe she's not what you're really looking for. Besides how do you know how innocent she is, you don't follow her every move.hbxdoode said:she's not that kind of girl to just spread her legs... i would love to!!! did i mentioned that she is very innocent
Uh, I'm sure she's sucked her fair share of c0ck. I know lot's of "virgins" that have done all sorts of things with guys, but if it's only a dildo and oral it means they are still a virgin.
I can assure you she's not innocent.
I can assure you she's not innocent.
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