i recently met this girl, she's really hot, smart, most of all she's very innocent, and a virgin( i know this for a fact!)we've been out a couple of times, we would talk for hours, and i'm getting a really good vibe. i feel like the chemistry is there and i tell her i really like her and she says she's flattered, and she doesnt know what to say and that "Im an awsome friend to have"... Talking about giving out mix signals... should i keep trying or too early to give up? has anyone been through this, give me some feedback thanks
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
getting mixed signals... what do you guys think?
- Thread starter hbxdoode
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Maybe it is you who is giving mixed signals. Find a way to tell her that she is sexy. If you are having a good conversation with her, then get her phone number.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If so then maybe she's not what you're really looking for. Besides how do you know how innocent she is, you don't follow her every move.hbxdoode said:she's not that kind of girl to just spread her legs... i would love to!!! did i mentioned that she is very innocent
Uh, I'm sure she's sucked her fair share of c0ck. I know lot's of "virgins" that have done all sorts of things with guys, but if it's only a dildo and oral it means they are still a virgin.
I can assure you she's not innocent.
I can assure you she's not innocent.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.