Getting matches doesn't feel interesting anymore

[Plinco]

I've gotten some OLD matches but I don't feel all that interested in any of them like I used to five years ago. I think it's the stress leftover from 2020. I've noticed a general decline in vitality everywhere I look. Is it me or do you guys agree?

I think the solution is to do things that make me happy again.

 

[Stuffnu]

OLD today is like a job.
After a match, girls are now accustomed to contributing zero effort while you do all the work.
It’s not lack of interest you‘re feeling - it’s boredom.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Im right there with you. I really dont even have enough time to be dating. It seems like men are losing interest in modern women because the women dont bring much to the table. Why put in all that effort for a low quality woman?

I don’t put in any effort. We smash or I pass. It’s working for me

 

[holidayad_]

Women are increasingly uninterested in men. Most of those who use OLD are looking for an ego boost.

 

[Plinco]

This is a low interest convo I had with a girl I matched. I did not feel compelled to put any effort into it.

 

[Plinco]

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[Plinco]

Here's another one. I wasn't interested in her either.

 

[Plinco]

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[Plinco]

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[CornbreadFed]

OLD today is like a job.
After a match, girls are now accustomed to contributing zero effort while you do all the work.
It’s not lack of interest you‘re feeling - it’s boredom.

That sounds like a you problem

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I've gotten some OLD matches but I don't feel all that interested in any of them like I used to five years ago. I think it's the stress leftover from 2020. I've noticed a general decline in vitality everywhere I look. Is it me or do you guys agree?

I think the solution is to do things that make me happy again.

Well basically it's like a job interview if you are in your 30s.

"What do you do for a living", "what is your job"? = let me assess how smart and rich your are or when you sit in the socioeconomical hierarchy.

Then comes the first date planning which they believe needs to involve a 5 star restaurants (that you pay ofc).

 

[corrector]

Just another Tuesday with OLD.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I don’t put in any effort. We smash or I pass. It’s working for me

Working with hves.

 

[I_have_BDE]

I've gotten some OLD matches but I don't feel all that interested in any of them like I used to five years ago. I think it's the stress leftover from 2020. I've noticed a general decline in vitality everywhere I look. Is it me or do you guys agree?

I think the solution is to do things that make me happy again.

I feel the same way now. nothing to do with Covid BS though. 5 years ago OLD was a lot better. Tons more hot women, easier to talk to them and get dates.

I'd get quite interested, exchange numbers, text and go on a date and was excited about it. However now OLD is filled with trash and when I do match it turns into disappointment. A lot of work to get a date, conversations usually become stale and now poor selection on OLD doesn't add any excitement.

It's a lot of work for little return. It's not some low testosterone BS though. I'm quite horny, as much as ever but simply there is diminishing returns wasting time on OLD.

OLD is like a BS job you hate waking up and going to every morning. That's how I feel about it now. Not inspired at all about it anymore.

 

[SW15]

OLD today is like a job.
After a match, girls are now accustomed to contributing zero effort while you do all the work.
It’s not lack of interest you‘re feeling - it’s boredom.

I had feelings like this 10-15 years ago in the early days of swipe apps and even dating websites before the launch of swipe apps.

 

[Solomon]

Here's another one. I wasn't interested in her either.

OP are these chicks hot? I'm pretty sure if they were hot you would be motivated, this reminds me of convos I used to have with chicks that were MID or B-O-B