"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting LTRs?

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tobby

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I've read the bible, the tips, and all the other crap, but I still feel like there's something missing with all the women that I try to talk to. I'm not scared of approaching/etc, but the outcome seems to be the same:

I try and say something funny/strike up a conversation, but the girl gives me absolutely nothing to work with. (They don't laugh, add to the conversation or do anything).

My conversations with my male friends don't go like this. They always call me to hang out and stuff, so I don't think I'm a person people don't want to be around, but I still don't understand why it still hasn't worked with women yet.

I've been wondering if it's because I'm boring or don't really know how to take the tension up a level. Maybe I make them nervous, (I still get numbers sometimes, go on dates, etc.) but it's always few and far in between. I can't figure out what to do? :confused:

To be honest, I've never had a LTR, and my dates have never lasted long enough to really find out why.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ONe thing about making a woman laugh is to be in a C&F mood, smile, be upbeat and positive. Sometimes you gotta laugh first to get them comfortable laughing. Also, ask questions than open them up, tease them a little, etc.
 
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Hey I feel you man. I mean I have been a little more successful with women lately (in a FWB relationship right now) but I can just never seem to land a relationship with any women. Can't really figure out why.
 
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