"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting LTRs?

tobby

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I've read the bible, the tips, and all the other crap, but I still feel like there's something missing with all the women that I try to talk to. I'm not scared of approaching/etc, but the outcome seems to be the same:

I try and say something funny/strike up a conversation, but the girl gives me absolutely nothing to work with. (They don't laugh, add to the conversation or do anything).

My conversations with my male friends don't go like this. They always call me to hang out and stuff, so I don't think I'm a person people don't want to be around, but I still don't understand why it still hasn't worked with women yet.

I've been wondering if it's because I'm boring or don't really know how to take the tension up a level. Maybe I make them nervous, (I still get numbers sometimes, go on dates, etc.) but it's always few and far in between. I can't figure out what to do? :confused:

To be honest, I've never had a LTR, and my dates have never lasted long enough to really find out why.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Charm

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ONe thing about making a woman laugh is to be in a C&F mood, smile, be upbeat and positive. Sometimes you gotta laugh first to get them comfortable laughing. Also, ask questions than open them up, tease them a little, etc.
 

BlahBBlah

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Hey I feel you man. I mean I have been a little more successful with women lately (in a FWB relationship right now) but I can just never seem to land a relationship with any women. Can't really figure out why.
 
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