There is this girl who was my girlfriend 6 months ago. We broke up, and I have decided I am not ready for a girlfriend. However, a couple of days a go we agreed to have sex this weekend. She would also, invite some girls to join. However, for some reason she had the thought we would get back together as girlfriend/boyfriend. I didn't know that is what she thought. So she is not sure if she what she wants to do. What should I do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Umm, she's inviting you to have a orgy with her and some other girls and your worried that she wants to be your girlfriend? gtfocrossboss said:
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just be honest and don't be a needly little dude.
'Look, I'd love to hang out with you again, but I'm not ready for another relationship with you at this time.'
will you possibly miss out on an orgy? Maybe, but improve your game and someday you wouldnt be needing her around to make an orgy happen.
Moral of the story, man up, and don't break your principles for anyone, not even her.
'Look, I'd love to hang out with you again, but I'm not ready for another relationship with you at this time.'
will you possibly miss out on an orgy? Maybe, but improve your game and someday you wouldnt be needing her around to make an orgy happen.
Moral of the story, man up, and don't break your principles for anyone, not even her.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.